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Virginity : Reclaiming the Narrative
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Virginity : Reclaiming the Narrative

Forget everything you were taught about "losing" your virginity. This bold, eye-opening essay reclaims the narrative around first-time sex—centering confidence, curiosity, and consent. From healing past shame to empowering future generations, it’s a must-read for anyone ready to change how we talk about sex, pleasure, and power—especially for young women finding their voice.

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Finding Your Tribe: NYC EDITION
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Finding Your Tribe: NYC EDITION

Being a woman over 35 in a city like New York—especially one who isn’t chasing marriage, motherhood, or a traditional career path—means living life on your own terms. But carving your own way can sometimes feel isolating. From plant parties and run clubs to political engagement and wellness circles, your next community moment is just around the corner.

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Taurus Supreme
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Taurus Supreme

In honor of our founder Lauren Napier — the ultimate SP1NSTER™ and Taurus Supreme — we welcome Taurus season 2025 with reverence and radiance. This is a time for the single woman who walks with purpose, grounded in grace and rooted in her worth. Taurus energy is lush, intentional, and unshakably confident. It’s not just about building wealth or beauty — it’s about becoming immovable in your values, selective with your time, and magnetic in your presence. This season, the Taurus woman doesn't chase; she cultivates. She doesn't rush; she receives. Welcome to a month of power, pleasure, and profound alignment.

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D1NNER FOR ONE™
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D1NNER FOR ONE™

In the realm of solo dining, a new culinary star has re-emerged—Lauren Napier’s D1NNER for One™. Originally a three-time bestseller and recognized by O, The Oprah Magazine, this cozy yet confident cookbook returns by popular demand. And this time, tariffs be damned—it’s digital!

Whether you're a spinster, a single lady, or someone who just loves a quiet night in, this one’s for you. Download it, screenshot it, take the grocery list straight to the store, and get cooking.

Born in the solitude of pandemic lockdowns, D1NNER for One™ is more than a collection of recipes—it's a philosophy. When faced with her mother’s worries about her single status, Napier didn’t wallow. She whipped up self-love on a plate. “I wasn't romanticizing my life,” she says. “I was romancing myself.”

In a culture obsessed with couples’ tables and shared plates, Napier’s book invites us to set a table for one and savor the moment. With over 100 million singles in the U.S., D1NNER for One™ is both timely and timeless—a plateful of pleasure, made just for you.

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Rethinking Equity in an Unequal Economy
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Rethinking Equity in an Unequal Economy

As the media fixates on a "loneliness crisis" among men, single women are facing a more pressing reality: life costs more when you’re female—and alone. From gendered pricing to wage gaps, the math doesn’t add up. But what if we flipped the script? What if women, rather than paying more, started paying less?

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UNDER HIS … ADMINISTRATION
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UNDER HIS … ADMINISTRATION

Today’s vote against women’s rights is more than a legislative maneuver—it is a symbolic unraveling. It signals to American women, particularly those who fought hardest for enfranchisement, that their voices can be silenced with a gavel strike. It reminds us that in this chapter of American history, the erosion of rights comes not just from men in dark suits, but also from women in soft pastels, pearls, and power heels.

Democracy doesn’t just die in darkness. Sometimes, it dies in daylight, wrapped in chiffon and constitutional betrayal.

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READING IS SEXY
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READING IS SEXY

The Literary Life of Single Women: How Reading Empowers, Connects, and Liberates

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SP1NSTER™ IS THE NEW BLACK
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SP1NSTER™ IS THE NEW BLACK

Once a term of pity, "spinster" is now a badge of independence. In 2025, modern spinsters are rewriting societal rules, embracing financial autonomy and self-fulfillment. No longer bound by traditional timelines, these women prioritize personal growth, career ambitions, and self-love. The stigma of spinsterhood is fading, replaced by a celebration of choice and empowerment. Modern spinsters are proving that a meaningful life isn't defined by marital status, but by living authentically and intentionally

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Beyond Romance: The Rise of Lavender Marriages
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Beyond Romance: The Rise of Lavender Marriages

From an American President to Hollywood's Golden Age and how the concept of Lavender Marriage is being reimagined by young adults seeking financial stability and companionship over romance.

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PICTURE THIS
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PICTURE THIS

13% of Homes Now Owned by Single Women: How the Rise of Solo Female Homeowners is Transforming the $200 Billion Home Decor Industry

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WE’RE BAAAACK!
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WE’RE BAAAACK!

The SP1NSTER™ is back! Catch up on Season 2 updates & navigate 2025's chaos with us.

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NOT ALL MEN …
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NOT ALL MEN …

Uncover the dark reality of online violence against women. From 70,000-member group chat to the president of the United States assault tips to high-profile cases, we explore the urgent need for protection from “not all men.

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Let’s TRY AGAIN
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Let’s TRY AGAIN

It’s never to late to create/update! 2025 has been a doozy. For many 2025 has been anything other than desirable. Let’s edit that vision board.

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YEAH, NAH!
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YEAH, NAH!

All hail Michelle LaVaughn Robinson Obama, “girl from the Southside”, Forever FLOTUS and Queen of Hearts.

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THE YOUNG AND THE SEXLESS
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THE YOUNG AND THE SEXLESS

The perception that all single people are living a life of constant sexual escapades is a prevalent myth.

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VARIOUS VERSIONS OF LOVE
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VARIOUS VERSIONS OF LOVE

Don't forsake the various versions of love you already possess for an idealized notion of romance. Love is everywhere!

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