Studies show, 47% of people prefer to date and be single in the summer, As the sun comes out and scent of summer fills the air, there's an undeniable sense of freedom that lures us into embracing the season. For single ladies, summer is not just about basking in the sunshine; it's about reclaiming our independence, relishing in moments of self-discovery, and reveling in the sheer joy of being alive. This summer and every summer beyond we are rewriting the narrative and center our experiences around empowerment, self-love, and unbridled fun.

Within the hearts of single mothers there exists a force of nature, an embodiment of resilience, strength, and unwavering love.

In the United States, single motherhood is a rising phenomenon, encompassing 80% of all single parents. Among them, a diverse array of stories unfold: 45% are bravely navigating the waters of divorce or separation, 1.7% have endured the heartache of widowhood, and 34% have embarked on the journey of motherhood solo from the start. Each story is unique, each path winding and unpredictable, but all share a common thread of strength and resilience.

Is there a connection between the eldest daughter to single /childless woman trend? The repercussions of eldest daughter syndrome extend far beyond familial dynamics, permeating into every aspect of these young women's lives. From heightened levels of anxiety and depression to struggles with self-esteem and identity formation, the emotional toll of shouldering such immense responsibilities from a young age is undeniable.

Woody Allen, Jerry Seinfeld, and Russell Simmons, despite their distinct realms of entertainment, share a common thread of controversy and criticism that has punctuated their careers - controversies that have tested their legacies and prompted critical reflection on the intersection of fame, power, and morality in the entertainment industry - “dating” and marrying teenaged girls.

The patriarchal lens through which this narrative has been scrutinized for centuries has painted Eve as the temptress, the siren luring poor Adam into disobedience. But isn’t it curious how the blame so effortlessly slid off Adam’s shoulders and onto Eve’s?

Patriarchy has indeed been a cunning trick, a masterstroke of centuries-old PR that conveniently shifts culpability from men to women. Adam’s fallibility becomes obscured by the shadows of societal constructs, leaving Eve to bear the weight of her supposed sin alone. It’s a tale as old as time itself—women blamed for the selfish acts of men.

A recent survey showed that 81% of women are open to dating someone 10 years younger than they are, and that nearly 90% of men are interested in dating someone 10 years older. The data doesn’t lie, more women are open to dating younger men and that more men are open to dating older women than most people might think. 

Despite the data, media is still covering relationships and dating from a primitive perspective. Dating across generational boundaries isn't just a passing trend—it's a reflection of society's changing attitudes towards love and relationships. As long as everyone is a consenting adult, love and desire knows no age. Whether you're an older woman or a younger man, your happiness and fulfillment deserve to be celebrated. Live long and prosper, friends!

SP1NSTER™ solo travel is a trend on the rise, with 67% of solo travelers being women and 72% of American women expressing a preference for solo trips It’s important to stay safe.

The data is clear, the population of single women is growing, with a projected 45% of millennial and Gen-Z women opting to remain unattached by 2030.

And yet, you wouldn't know it from the relentless barrage of romantic narratives bombarding us from every screen. It's as if the entire world has collectively decided that the pinnacle of human existence is finding a soulmate and popping out a few offspring, and woe betide anyone who dares to question this sacred doctrine.

Taurus season offers a time of reflection, growth, and celebration. As we embrace the stability and self-worth inherent in Taurus energy, we set the stage for personal and collective transformation. Let us honor the enduring qualities of this steadfast zodiac sign and embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

APRIL 19 AND END ON MAY 20

The best part of being your own boss is being able to take breaks when you need them. Especially, when you arrive at the intersection of Black History x Women’s History month. I’ll be back next month, refreshed and ready to give you the spinster content you crave. ✌🏾💋

The question is ALWAYS, “ So, why don’t you have a man? ”

“If I had a dollar for every time I am asked about a man I’d be able to close the gender-race pay gap.“

The thing is, I am not in search of a man. I am in search of peace, comfort - rapture. I have always been a go with the flow girl and I move where I am motivated. I have never had an aching desire to find a husband - or even a boyfriend. More than that, I am fun so when I am with someone they should be at lease as fun as I am. If I am not laughing and having a good time in the relationship what am I doing in the relationship?

Love can take many forms, one of which is platonic love like the deeply rooted love and connection we have with our bffs! Research shows 81% of women over 18 consider friendships as important to them as romantic relationships.

Platonic love gets much less attention when it comes to discussing the most important connections of our lives, but these platonic relationships are arguably some of the most meaningful. Platonic love is a type of love that is distinctly nonsexual and nonromantic while still being deep, close, and meaningful. Beyond a simple friendship, platonic love describes a bond that's defined by heartfelt connection, intimacy, and care.

In the US, over 70% of divorces are initiated by women, in addition, over 50% of divorced wives never want to remarry. Divorce is a life-altering experience that can evoke a myriad of emotions, with men and women navigating the aftermath with separate yet distinctive behaviors.

As the cultural perceptions about divorce continue to evolve, women are more inclined to embrace newfound freedom, openly express themselves, and pursue personal happiness.

Baby Boomers and the early Gen-x’ers are the first generation to live so long in such good health and to divorce in such great numbers in midlife resulting in millions of women enjoying the best sex of their lives in their 60's.

20% of women over 60 said orgasms that are more satisfying than ever before, 57% said they have an orgasm with their partners always or almost always, while nearly 40% of women over 60 are in the mood as often as they were 10 years prior.

Approximately 20% of engagements were called off before the wedding. We live in a culture that encourages us to find a partner and live happily ever after - even at the sacrifice of our intuition and happiness. If you feel you need to stop, pause, slow down or even end your relationship there is likely good cause. Make the decision about what is best for you and your future. It might be the hardest and bravest decision you ever make and you will be, OK! !

Wether you are learning to or loving your single status, there is a chance you will be invited to a soiree that you’ll have to attend solo. Check out he SP1NSTER’s™ Guide to navigating an invite only event without a plus one.

Today is Valentine’s Day! Happy Valentine’s day to you. For some reason, V-Day causes some single people stress and anxiety. It shines a light on the romantic relationships in our lives — or the lack of — and that can stir up an array of emotions. Whether you are coupled up or celebrating with friends, there is one relationship that everyone has, and many argue is the most important: the relationship with yourself.  While Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, and why not grant yourself the same kindness, generosity and display of admiration that you would to a lover or friend?

The video game and esports industries are seeing an unprecedented surge in revenue thanks to women gamers, the majority who are single. 33% of female gamers were aged 25-34 and 32% have the preference of strictly playing on their own.

Do you feel like you’re emotionally defective because you don't have a burning desire to be married? Fear not, for you're not alone. The trend of never-been-married mid-aged Americans has been decades in the making. For the first decade of the 20th century, only around 16% of 40-year-olds had never married. Today, 25% of 40 year olds in the US have never been married.

Unfortunately, we have all experienced a hater in the workplace. Studies show single women often face friction with their married co-workers due to the perception of their free time outside of work.

Being single does’t mean everyone at work is jealous of your free time - there are plenty of reasons we may experience the wrath of a colleague’s misplaced hostility. I found people who behave like tyrants at work are often miserable somewhere else in their lives. I learned that there were better ways to avoid the proverbial airstrikes and landmines in environment of workplace warfare. I call it “warfare” because we are literally in a fight for our survival.