There are THOUSANDS (if not millions) of articles about how not to be single. In a world filled with advice on relationships, dating, and marriage, the unique experience of being a single woman often takes a back seat. The focus on finding a partner can sometimes overshadow the excitement, self-discovery and self-love that comes with single life. This leads to a thought-provoking question: “Where are the conversations that encourage happy and confident single woman?”

Celebrating a silver screen icon in Murphy Brown, a seasoned investigative journalist and anchorwoman for the fictional news program, FYI. Murphy was an unapologetically ambitious, fiercely independent, and unafraid to speak her mind—a character archetype that resonated deeply with audiences, particularly women, who saw in her a reflection of their own aspirations and struggles.

The term "daddy issues" is a damaging stereotype that unjustly shifts the blame for emotional and psychological challenges from negligent fathers to their daughters. It not only stigmatizes women but also excuses and perpetuates exploitative male behavior, reinforcing patriarchal norms. A more empathetic and just approach would involve recognizing and addressing the root causes of these issues—holding fathers accountable for their actions and supporting women in their healing journeys without judgment or stigma. By doing so, society can move towards a more equitable and compassionate understanding of the complex dynamics at play.

From his losing the 2020 election, thanks to Black women voters, to the actions of three single women—Stormy Daniels, E. Jean Carroll, and Fani Willis—who are forcing him to face the consequences of his actions, single women are repeatedly making Trump's life a living hell.

Single women, who comprise 23% of the electorate, have been particularly vocal in their opposition to Trump. Single women are increasingly impacting political outcomes, standing up to Trump, and demanding accountability, highlighting the growing influence and resilience of women in the political arena.

30% of singles are choosing to date sober. By embracing creative, alcohol-free drinks and offering alternative activities, we can create supportive social settings that respect individual choices and promote a healthier, more inclusive culture.

From Gen X to Gen Z, women are more empowered and independent than ever before. With greater access to education, career opportunities, and financial independence, they no longer feel compelled to settle for relationships that do not enhance their lives.

75 % of single women are not looking for a partner. Single women are actively relishing in their solo status as a long-term and enjoyable thing.

Samantha Jones, the iconic heroine of the 90s and 2000s HBO comedy series "Sex and the City," was more than just a character; she was a force of nature, a trailblazer, and an unconventional beacon of empowerment for women everywhere.

“DOWN THERE CARE” , In a recent survey of 1,000 women, 44% were unable to identify the vagina on a medical illustration of the female reproductive tract.

Why is everyone terrified by the word “vagina ?” Conversations surrounding female anatomy often sidestep the use of accurate terminology, particularly when referring to the vagina. Instead, a plethora of euphemisms and code names emerge, reflecting a discomfort ingrained in cultural attitudes towards discussing reproductive organs. This aversion to using the term "vagina" stems from various sources, including societal norms, historical biases, and personal discomfort. However, the consequences of this linguistic evasion extend far beyond mere semantics, impacting health outcomes and perpetuating body negativity.

According to the CDC, 44% of Americans don't have first aid kits, and 48% don't have emergency supplies. I've cultivated a readiness that knows no bounds, adamant never to be caught unprepared in the face of illness, as a lone warrior in the battle for self-preservation and recovery. I’ve got you covered with the 25 indispensable items for every solo dweller's arsenal.

The question that begs an answer is, “ Why do straight, white men care about what everyone else is doing - especially women?” Perhaps this question can be answered by intense psychotherapy or heavy critical analysis. That would require men to seek the self reflection and therapy! The SP1NSTER.com was never supposed to be a conversation about men. The platform is dedicated to women without centering men, the male gaze or men’s opinions. Because Butker decided to point his laser focus and hatred on a the advancement of woman and choice, who “pals around” with the likes of Josh Hawley, a sitting member of congress who’s a fierce anti-choice abortion legislator his speech is worth investigation.

Studies show, 47% of people prefer to date and be single in the summer, As the sun comes out and scent of summer fills the air, there's an undeniable sense of freedom that lures us into embracing the season. For single ladies, summer is not just about basking in the sunshine; it's about reclaiming our independence, relishing in moments of self-discovery, and reveling in the sheer joy of being alive. This summer and every summer beyond we are rewriting the narrative and center our experiences around empowerment, self-love, and unbridled fun.

Within the hearts of single mothers there exists a force of nature, an embodiment of resilience, strength, and unwavering love.

In the United States, single motherhood is a rising phenomenon, encompassing 80% of all single parents. Among them, a diverse array of stories unfold: 45% are bravely navigating the waters of divorce or separation, 1.7% have endured the heartache of widowhood, and 34% have embarked on the journey of motherhood solo from the start. Each story is unique, each path winding and unpredictable, but all share a common thread of strength and resilience.

Is there a connection between the eldest daughter to single /childless woman trend? The repercussions of eldest daughter syndrome extend far beyond familial dynamics, permeating into every aspect of these young women's lives. From heightened levels of anxiety and depression to struggles with self-esteem and identity formation, the emotional toll of shouldering such immense responsibilities from a young age is undeniable.

Woody Allen, Jerry Seinfeld, and Russell Simmons, despite their distinct realms of entertainment, share a common thread of controversy and criticism that has punctuated their careers - controversies that have tested their legacies and prompted critical reflection on the intersection of fame, power, and morality in the entertainment industry - “dating” and marrying teenaged girls.

The patriarchal lens through which this narrative has been scrutinized for centuries has painted Eve as the temptress, the siren luring poor Adam into disobedience. But isn’t it curious how the blame so effortlessly slid off Adam’s shoulders and onto Eve’s?

Patriarchy has indeed been a cunning trick, a masterstroke of centuries-old PR that conveniently shifts culpability from men to women. Adam’s fallibility becomes obscured by the shadows of societal constructs, leaving Eve to bear the weight of her supposed sin alone. It’s a tale as old as time itself—women blamed for the selfish acts of men.

A recent survey showed that 81% of women are open to dating someone 10 years younger than they are, and that nearly 90% of men are interested in dating someone 10 years older. The data doesn’t lie, more women are open to dating younger men and that more men are open to dating older women than most people might think. 

Despite the data, media is still covering relationships and dating from a primitive perspective. Dating across generational boundaries isn't just a passing trend—it's a reflection of society's changing attitudes towards love and relationships. As long as everyone is a consenting adult, love and desire knows no age. Whether you're an older woman or a younger man, your happiness and fulfillment deserve to be celebrated. Live long and prosper, friends!

SP1NSTER™ solo travel is a trend on the rise, with 67% of solo travelers being women and 72% of American women expressing a preference for solo trips It’s important to stay safe.

The data is clear, the population of single women is growing, with a projected 45% of millennial and Gen-Z women opting to remain unattached by 2030.

And yet, you wouldn't know it from the relentless barrage of romantic narratives bombarding us from every screen. It's as if the entire world has collectively decided that the pinnacle of human existence is finding a soulmate and popping out a few offspring, and woe betide anyone who dares to question this sacred doctrine.

Taurus season offers a time of reflection, growth, and celebration. As we embrace the stability and self-worth inherent in Taurus energy, we set the stage for personal and collective transformation. Let us honor the enduring qualities of this steadfast zodiac sign and embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

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The best part of being your own boss is being able to take breaks when you need them. Especially, when you arrive at the intersection of Black History x Women’s History month. I’ll be back next month, refreshed and ready to give you the spinster content you crave. ✌🏾💋