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The Porn Effect: IS Porn is Warping Our Sexual Reality
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The Porn Effect: IS Porn is Warping Our Sexual Reality

Gone are the days of hiding a crumpled magazine under the mattress or sneaking into the back room of the local video store. Today, with a few keystrokes, anyone can dive headfirst into an ocean of explicit content. But while the internet has made porn more accessible than ever, it’s also changing the way we think about sex, love, and relationships. Spoiler alert: it’s not all for the better.

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The Evolution of THE Prenup: SINGLE WOMEN AND Asset Protection
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The Evolution of THE Prenup: SINGLE WOMEN AND Asset Protection

Prenuptial agreements, once seen as tools primarily for wealthy men to safeguard their assets, are being reimagined by a new generation of financially savvy women. 41% of Gen Z and 47% of Millennials who are engaged or married having a prenup.

Increasingly, women are taking control of their financial futures, and prenuptial agreements have become a powerful tool for ensuring that their hard-earned assets are protected.

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SHE IS A BETTER INVESTOR
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SHE IS A BETTER INVESTOR

While the debate about gender differences in investment performance continues, the evidence overwhelmingly supports the notion that women are, on average, better investors than men. This advantage stems not from innate superiority but from behavioral differences that favor patience, discipline, and a focus on long-term goals over short-term gains.

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Single Women in the Legislature: Policy, Electability, and Relatability
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Single Women in the Legislature: Policy, Electability, and Relatability

Currently, women make up 28% of the 118th Congress—the highest percentage in U.S. history, representing 153 of the 540 voting and nonvoting members.

This figure marks a 59% increase from a decade ago. While still below their share of the overall U.S. population, the increase in women’s representation brings diverse perspectives to legislative decision-making, especially those of single women, whose lived experiences and policy priorities often differ from their married counterparts.

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IT’S HUMAN NATURE
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IT’S HUMAN NATURE

As societal attitudes towards sexuality evolve, more women are embracing self-pleasure as a pathway to understanding their bodies and achieving satisfaction on their own terms. Whether they’re married, single, or casually dating, women are increasingly learning that the key to good sex lies not in a partner but in their own hands.

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THE FIRST WIVES CLUB: The Influence and Legacy of Billionaire First Wives
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THE FIRST WIVES CLUB: The Influence and Legacy of Billionaire First Wives

Melinda French Gates, Sue Ann Arnall, Elaine Wynn, and MacKenzie Scott are more than just the ex-wives of some of America's most powerful men. They are formidable figures who played crucial roles in building the brands and fortunes of their former spouses, who include an oil tycoon, a gaming mogul, a tech entrepreneur, and an e-commerce and retail service giant. Their intelligence, dedication, and vision significantly contributed to the successes of these men. It is fair to say that without the brilliance and support of these women, the men they stood beside might not have reached the pinnacles they did.

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sunday of summer
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sunday of summer

August is my favorite month. I have heard it called the “Sunday of summer.” The lazy days in the sun come to an end, the closer we get to September the closer we get to the grind. I love summer. For me, it is the most wonderful time of the year. Cheers to summer days, being barefoot in the park, rooftop season, slow afternoons and hot summer nights. Here’s to summer. Make the most of the last few weeks of freedom! See you in September!

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11/11
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11/11

Singles' Day, is the world's largest online shopping event. In 2023, the event generated an estimated $156 billion in sales, which is almost double the amount spent in 2021. This is in comparison to the $35.3 billion spent during Cyber Week in the United States in 2022, which included Cyber Monday, Black Friday, Thanksgiving, and the weekend in between.

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POWER OF THE PURSE
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POWER OF THE PURSE

Single women are becoming a significant economic force, reshaping the landscape of education, homeownership, and the job market. In 2021, 52% of women in the U.S. were unmarried, a dramatic rise from just 7% in 1900. This demographic shift is accompanied by a surge in educational attainment, with women outpacing men in college degrees. Nearly 11 million single women owned homes in 2021, compared to 8 million single men, showcasing their growing financial independence. However, a persistent wage gap remains, with never-married women earning only 92% of what their male counterparts make and possessing 29% less wealth.

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WE’RE GONNA MAKE IT AFTER ALL
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WE’RE GONNA MAKE IT AFTER ALL

Mary Tyler Moore, an emblematic figure in American television history, stands as a groundbreaking icon for feminist ideals and single women's empowerment. Her portrayal of Mary Richards in "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" revolutionized the depiction of women on television, challenging societal norms and paving the way for future generations of independent, career-oriented women.

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AN AFFAR TO REMEMBER
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AN AFFAR TO REMEMBER

In the fleeting warmth of summer, amidst the shimmering heat and the promise of endless sunny days, there exists a phenomenon that transcends mere romance—it's the exhilarating experience of a summer fling. Like a sudden burst of fireworks against a twilight sky, a summer fling ignites passion, adventure, and unforgettable memories that resonate long after the season has passed.

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MUCH TO CONSIDER
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MUCH TO CONSIDER

As access to abortion becomes more limited, questions arise about the potential for further encroachments on women's bodily autonomy.

One area of concern is the possibility that elective surgeries, such as hysterectomies, could face increased scrutiny and regulation. A hysterectomy, the surgical removal of the uterus, is often performed for medical reasons, including cancer, fibroids, and severe endometriosis. However, it can also be an elective procedure for women who do not wish to bear children. The notion that elective surgeries might be conflated with birth control is not far-fetched, given the current climate of reproductive politics.

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24/7
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24/7

Celebrate self-love 24/7! July 24th is a reminder to prioritize self-care, embrace your worth, and practice kindness towards yourself every single day.

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FIRST MARRIAGES OVER 40
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FIRST MARRIAGES OVER 40

Since 1990, the midlife first marriage rate has experienced a significant surge, increasing by 75% for women and 45% for men. This remarkable rise underscores a broader societal shift towards later-life unions. The shares of women and men entering a first marriage between the ages of 40 and 59 have quadrupled between 1990 and 2019, reflecting a substantial demographic transformation. This increase highlights how both women and men are increasingly choosing to marry for the first time during their middle years, a trend driven by evolving social norms, extended educational pursuits, and career advancements. This shift towards midlife marriages suggests that individuals are prioritizing personal growth and stability before committing to lifelong partnerships, contributing to potentially more mature and resilient marital relationships.

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BRRRRR! IT’S COLD IN HERE
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BRRRRR! IT’S COLD IN HERE

Recent studies reveal that office temperatures are typically set to levels that favor men's thermal comfort over women's, despite the equal presence of women in the workforce.

This discrepancy not only affects individual comfort but also has broader implications for workplace efficiency and gender equity.

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SINGLE PSYCHO FEMALE
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SINGLE PSYCHO FEMALE

In the 1990s, a wave of psychological thrillers and dramas depicted a striking archetype: the single woman who begins as empowered and confident but descends into unhinged and often dangerous behavior after encountering romantic disappointment or betrayal.

This trope, rooted in societal fears and perceptions of female independence and desire, found its expression in several iconic films of the era.

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SELFIE GAME STRONG
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SELFIE GAME STRONG

The societal context plays a significant role in shaping the perception of narcissism. In a culture that often scrutinizes and criticizes appearances, taking control of one's image through selfies can be a powerful act of self-affirmation. It's important to differentiate between healthy self-admiration and genuine narcissism, understanding that the former can be a positive, confidence-building activity.

So often, when we are encouraged to take sexy photos, we are encouraged to take them for someone else to admire when we should take photos for ourselves that make us admire ourselves. Ultimately, the key is balance and intention. While it's crucial to be aware of the potential for perceived narcissism, it's equally important to allow oneself the freedom to enjoy and celebrate one's image in a healthy, confident manner.

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THE EVOLUTION OF THE SUMMER ANTHEM
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THE EVOLUTION OF THE SUMMER ANTHEM

Something is in the summer water. There is a subtlety from Y2K to 2008 where Beyoncé and Destiny’s Child made being independent veery cool. I can’t help but noice the frequency of songs released about happy single women is on the rise and has only signs of a continuous meteoric rise. The girls are healthy, hydrated and healed. The self-love summer anthems are here to stay!

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ARE YOU LONELY OR HORNY?
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ARE YOU LONELY OR HORNY?

In a world shaped by patriarchal ideals and fairytale romances, happily single women are consistently asked reductive questions. “Aren’t you lonely?” ranks highest among these recurring inquiries.

It’s time to define lonely. There is a significant difference between the desire for deep emotional intimacy and the desire for a core-shaking orgasm. Let’s also be honest—a relationship does not guarantee a screaming orgasm, or an orgasm at all. Dare I say, a relationship doesn’t guarantee intimacy either…

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