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FRIENDS AND WOES
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FRIENDS AND WOES

Friendships are not immune to challenges and conflicts. Disagreements or misunderstandings can lead to emotional turbulence. Friendship loss, much like any form of grief, can be a complex and challenging experience let The SP1NSTER™ guide you through your BFF-break-up.

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WEAPONIZED INCOMPETENCE: A GROWING TREND AMONGT LAZY MEN
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WEAPONIZED INCOMPETENCE: A GROWING TREND AMONGT LAZY MEN

The hashtag for “weaponized incompetence” currently has 53.5 millions views on TikTok. Conversations on the app have spurred more in-depth threads on the socials spread like wildfire. It begs the question, “why does any woman want a man in their home who makes their life harder?”

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HIGH COST OF HEALTHCARE                       FOR SINGLE WOMEN
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HIGH COST OF HEALTHCARE FOR SINGLE WOMEN

Single women spend nearly twice as much of their income on insurance as single men. From healthcare to auto insurance women are financially penalized for being responsible and living longer.

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POSSESSION IS 9/10 OF THE LAW: ARE WOMEN ONLY ALLOWED AUTONOMY WHEN SHE IS SOMEONE’S WIFE OR DAUGHTER?
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POSSESSION IS 9/10 OF THE LAW: ARE WOMEN ONLY ALLOWED AUTONOMY WHEN SHE IS SOMEONE’S WIFE OR DAUGHTER?

Among men, just 22% consider themselves to be a feminist. The idea that a woman's worth is determined solely by her roles as a mother, wife, daughter or sister is pervasive in our current culture. When male allies appeal to their brethren through the lens that, “she could be your ….” or “ she is my…” permits his relationship to supersede her autonomy.

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THE MODERN WIDOW
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THE MODERN WIDOW

Widowhood is a club no one wants to join. One-third of women become widows before they're 60, and half before they are 65. there were over 13 million widows in the United States. The modern widow’s life looks much different than it did decades ago, “for many, widowhood is not a problem to solve but a life to be lived.”

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VACAT1ON™ SINGLE WOMEN          TRAVEL IS ON THE RISE
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VACAT1ON™ SINGLE WOMEN TRAVEL IS ON THE RISE

The search volume for the term “female solo travel” across all search engines has increased by 62% over the past three years. Single women are more likely to take solo vacations demonstrating women may spend more on flights, accommodation, dining, activities, and other travel-related expenses for solo trips that make them feel lavish, comfortable and safe. So why isn’t the travel industry paying close attention to the fabulous female traveler?

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HOW DO SINGLE GALS MANAGE WHEN THE INCOME GOES                               FROM ONE TO NONE?
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HOW DO SINGLE GALS MANAGE WHEN THE INCOME GOES FROM ONE TO NONE?

YOU’RE FIRED: How do single gals manage when the income goes from one to none? Tina Turner had just $.36 when she left Ike, Taraji P. Henson made her dreams come true with $700 in her bank account and Chrissy Metz of “This is Us” fame shared with Glamour Magazine in 2017 that she had $.81 in her bank account when she booked the Emmy winning series. You are a survivor and whatever the situation is, you will get through this

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AI'S SELECTIVE SILENCE: Heterosexual Man Blindness
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AI'S SELECTIVE SILENCE: Heterosexual Man Blindness

In a world where technology is increasingly responsible for shaping our perceptions and decisions, this AI silence is far from harmless. It perpetuates the myth that heterosexual men are somehow beyond reproach. It enables harmful stereotypes to go unchecked, and it allows systemic sexism to persist unchallenged. When asked about the female orgasm, AI refused to answer.

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REDEFINING THE SP1NSTER
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REDEFINING THE SP1NSTER

t’s time to reimagine this label. I am a self described SP1NSTER™. I am a 43 old woman and well beyond the usual age of marriage. I’ve never prioritized marriage. I am actually content with me. Perhaps I have a bit of Peter Pan syndrome , maybe it’s all of the experiences that I’ve had in life that have shaped my opinion on just trying to enjoying myself, learning myself understanding myself and my life instead of living in the constant pursuit of another’s.

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MOM-MUNITY: SINGLE MOTHERS Modernizing PARENTING
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MOM-MUNITY: SINGLE MOTHERS Modernizing PARENTING

Momunes, short for "Mom Communities," are empowering mothers to redefine the way they navigate the incredible journey of single parenthood. In the US 80% of single parents are mothers. Single mothers: 45% of single mothers are currently divorced or separated, 1.7% are widowed, 34% of single mothers never have been married.

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ARE SINGLE WOMEN TOO GOOD AT MANAGING THE WAGE GAP ?
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ARE SINGLE WOMEN TOO GOOD AT MANAGING THE WAGE GAP ?

The gender pay gap is a pernicious and deeply entrenched problem in our society. Despite years of progress and advocacy, women still earn, on average, significantly less than men for performing the same job and 54% of employed women are unmarried. This egregious discrimination robs single women of their financial stability, making it difficult for them to secure a foothold in an increasingly competitive economic landscape and somehow, single women continue to rise.

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LOW PRESSURE,                                          NO PRESSURE DATING
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LOW PRESSURE, NO PRESSURE DATING

60% of women in the US ages 18-29 are single, 45% of women between the ages of 25-44 will be single by 2030, and a whopping 57% of women are not looking for a relationship at all. Some “girls just wanna have fun!” Let’s take a look at the fun in dating for fun! I live for a low-pressure, no pressure date. In fact I become unnerved by the unnecessary pressure that gets put on a night out. In a world often obsessed with the pursuit of passionate love and intense romantic relationships, there exists a quieter, equally meaningful path to happiness—dating for companionship.

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The Rise of the SP1NSTER: Defying Patriarchal Norms and Thriving
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The Rise of the SP1NSTER: Defying Patriarchal Norms and Thriving

In a world that has long been dominated by traditional expectations and societal norms, the modern spinster is emerging as a force to be reckoned with. Gone are the days when a woman's worth was solely measured by her marital status. Today, she is rewriting the narrative, refusing to conform to society's patriarchal standards, and embracing her newfound agency with unparalleled enthusiasm.

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SINGLE WOMEN: THEY VOTE, VOLUNTEER, AND PROTEST
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SINGLE WOMEN: THEY VOTE, VOLUNTEER, AND PROTEST

Single women are a significant and growing demographic, representing approximately 26% of the U.S. voting-age population. In the 2020 presidential election, single women comprised 23% of all voters. In this group, there is huge Democratic Party representation: 68% of single women vote Democrat, compared to just 31% who vote Republican. As a growing demographic, these voices deserve to be heard and heeded, not silenced or marginalized.

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WOMAN OF THE HOUSE
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WOMAN OF THE HOUSE

In 2022, single women owned 58% over 35 million homes owned by unmarried Americans. This represents a significant portion of the total homeownership population and highlights the increasing role of single women in the housing market.

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THE RELENTLESS INTERROGATION OF SINGLE WOMEN
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THE RELENTLESS INTERROGATION OF SINGLE WOMEN

The frequency with which this invasive inquiry is thrust upon single women is not only appalling but indicative of a deeply entrenched bias against them. While some may argue that this question is merely a benign curiosity, it is essential to dissect the motives behind it and the implications it carries. One must first ponder: is this question routinely posed to men with the same fervor and frequency? The answer, is a resounding no.

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REVELAT1ON
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REVELAT1ON

Capitalism has conditioned us to believe that free time is wasted time and if you aren’t being productive you are failing. Combine those attitudes with the patriarchy, which conditioned both women and men into believing that women who aren’t operating in service to a man or literally anyone other than themselves are egomaniacal selfish and a disgrace to all of the women in the world and our ancestors. That’s changing - By the year 2030, the statistical projection that over 45% of women in America will be single.

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