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THURRRRST …
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THURRRRST …

The thirst is real! In 2023, around 77% of texters have sent , whilst 88% have received a risky text.

Sending risky/thirsty texts and nudes is a game that comes with both wins and losses, babes. You may get the immediate response you desire but will that gratification last? Ask yourself and know that the answer might be a big fat “NO!” Understanding the science behind the brain's reactions adds a layer of intrigue to the digital dance of thirst vs. romance. Always remember that once it’s out there, it’s out there forever!

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HOW TO COPE WHEN NOTHING IS GOING YOUOR WAY
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HOW TO COPE WHEN NOTHING IS GOING YOUOR WAY

One of life’s dirty little secrets is that some times a rough time can last for a long time. When life starts to resemble a house of cards on the verge of collapse, it's time to take a step back and reassess the situation. Here's a guide to cope with the whirlwind when everything seems to be going wrong. Might I add, sometimes everything is actually going wrong and I am here to validate you! I see you!

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flower girls
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flower girls

“I can buy myself flowers!” The US floral gifting market was valued at $12.25 billion in 2022. 63% of women buy flowers for themselves. 86% of these floral purchase are for non-calendar occasions. 79% of total floral purchases are made by women. It looks like there is an opportunity for growth in the flower industry and it starts with single ladies!

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SINGLE LADIES AND SELF ADORNMENT
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SINGLE LADIES AND SELF ADORNMENT

51% of single women are reported to buy their own jewelry, aligning with the trend of self-celebration. The rise of single women’s female purchasing power, especially among the 35-55 H.E.N.R.Y. ( high earning not rich yet) spinster has established herself as the most prominent demographic in the jewelry market.

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THE TRADITION OF HAVING CHILDREN FOR LONGTERM HEALTHCARE
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THE TRADITION OF HAVING CHILDREN FOR LONGTERM HEALTHCARE

With so many medical and cultural advancements why is having children the societal standard and acceptable substitute for longterm healthcare? When asked the question, “why do you want to have children?” more than 50% of people answered, “ So I’ll have someone to take care of me when I get old!”

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THE POWER LIP
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THE POWER LIP

Red lips are universally appealing, possibly due to a perceived association with sexual arousal. Highly attractive women were perceived as even more attractive in red. But WGAF? Women wear read because they love it and history tells us such. Red lips are the SP1NSTER’s signature lip color!

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  WOMEN ARE IN DANGER OF PREDATORS - EVEN IN DEATH
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WOMEN ARE IN DANGER OF PREDATORS - EVEN IN DEATH

I recently came across a shocking twitter thread about the rise of the female mortician and why she matters.

I’ll start off by saying this it’s exactly why you think … 92% of necrophiliacs are men while 94% of necrophilia victims are women. Apparently, there has not been a sufficient number of necrophiliacs to establish any effective treatments although necrophilia has been documented since before the 13th century.

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Plant Parenthood: choosing plants over babies or pets
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Plant Parenthood: choosing plants over babies or pets

A new trend has taken root and flourished in the homes of single, childless, and petless spinsters — plant parenthood is the newest and long lasting home decor and self care trend. If you've found yourself acquiring more houseplants over the past year, you're not alone. A recent study reveals that more than 70% of single women have embraced plant parenthood.

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FRIENDS AND WOES
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FRIENDS AND WOES

Friendships are not immune to challenges and conflicts. Disagreements or misunderstandings can lead to emotional turbulence. Friendship loss, much like any form of grief, can be a complex and challenging experience let The SP1NSTER™ guide you through your BFF-break-up.

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WEAPONIZED INCOMPETENCE: A GROWING TREND AMONGT LAZY MEN
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WEAPONIZED INCOMPETENCE: A GROWING TREND AMONGT LAZY MEN

The hashtag for “weaponized incompetence” currently has 53.5 millions views on TikTok. Conversations on the app have spurred more in-depth threads on the socials spread like wildfire. It begs the question, “why does any woman want a man in their home who makes their life harder?”

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HIGH COST OF HEALTHCARE                       FOR SINGLE WOMEN
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HIGH COST OF HEALTHCARE FOR SINGLE WOMEN

Single women spend nearly twice as much of their income on insurance as single men. From healthcare to auto insurance women are financially penalized for being responsible and living longer.

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POSSESSION IS 9/10 OF THE LAW: ARE WOMEN ONLY ALLOWED AUTONOMY WHEN SHE IS SOMEONE’S WIFE OR DAUGHTER?
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POSSESSION IS 9/10 OF THE LAW: ARE WOMEN ONLY ALLOWED AUTONOMY WHEN SHE IS SOMEONE’S WIFE OR DAUGHTER?

Among men, just 22% consider themselves to be a feminist. The idea that a woman's worth is determined solely by her roles as a mother, wife, daughter or sister is pervasive in our current culture. When male allies appeal to their brethren through the lens that, “she could be your ….” or “ she is my…” permits his relationship to supersede her autonomy.

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THE MODERN WIDOW
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THE MODERN WIDOW

Widowhood is a club no one wants to join. One-third of women become widows before they're 60, and half before they are 65. there were over 13 million widows in the United States. The modern widow’s life looks much different than it did decades ago, “for many, widowhood is not a problem to solve but a life to be lived.”

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VACAT1ON™ SINGLE WOMEN          TRAVEL IS ON THE RISE
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VACAT1ON™ SINGLE WOMEN TRAVEL IS ON THE RISE

The search volume for the term “female solo travel” across all search engines has increased by 62% over the past three years. Single women are more likely to take solo vacations demonstrating women may spend more on flights, accommodation, dining, activities, and other travel-related expenses for solo trips that make them feel lavish, comfortable and safe. So why isn’t the travel industry paying close attention to the fabulous female traveler?

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HOW DO SINGLE GALS MANAGE WHEN THE INCOME GOES                               FROM ONE TO NONE?
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HOW DO SINGLE GALS MANAGE WHEN THE INCOME GOES FROM ONE TO NONE?

YOU’RE FIRED: How do single gals manage when the income goes from one to none? Tina Turner had just $.36 when she left Ike, Taraji P. Henson made her dreams come true with $700 in her bank account and Chrissy Metz of “This is Us” fame shared with Glamour Magazine in 2017 that she had $.81 in her bank account when she booked the Emmy winning series. You are a survivor and whatever the situation is, you will get through this

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AI'S SELECTIVE SILENCE: Heterosexual Man Blindness
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AI'S SELECTIVE SILENCE: Heterosexual Man Blindness

In a world where technology is increasingly responsible for shaping our perceptions and decisions, this AI silence is far from harmless. It perpetuates the myth that heterosexual men are somehow beyond reproach. It enables harmful stereotypes to go unchecked, and it allows systemic sexism to persist unchallenged. When asked about the female orgasm, AI refused to answer.

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REDEFINING THE SP1NSTER
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REDEFINING THE SP1NSTER

t’s time to reimagine this label. I am a self described SP1NSTER™. I am a 43 old woman and well beyond the usual age of marriage. I’ve never prioritized marriage. I am actually content with me. Perhaps I have a bit of Peter Pan syndrome , maybe it’s all of the experiences that I’ve had in life that have shaped my opinion on just trying to enjoying myself, learning myself understanding myself and my life instead of living in the constant pursuit of another’s.

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MOM-MUNITY: SINGLE MOTHERS Modernizing PARENTING
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MOM-MUNITY: SINGLE MOTHERS Modernizing PARENTING

Momunes, short for "Mom Communities," are empowering mothers to redefine the way they navigate the incredible journey of single parenthood. In the US 80% of single parents are mothers. Single mothers: 45% of single mothers are currently divorced or separated, 1.7% are widowed, 34% of single mothers never have been married.

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ARE SINGLE WOMEN TOO GOOD AT MANAGING THE WAGE GAP ?
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ARE SINGLE WOMEN TOO GOOD AT MANAGING THE WAGE GAP ?

The gender pay gap is a pernicious and deeply entrenched problem in our society. Despite years of progress and advocacy, women still earn, on average, significantly less than men for performing the same job and 54% of employed women are unmarried. This egregious discrimination robs single women of their financial stability, making it difficult for them to secure a foothold in an increasingly competitive economic landscape and somehow, single women continue to rise.

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