The question is ALWAYS, “ So, why don’t you have a man? ”

“If I had a dollar for every time I am asked about a man I’d be able to close the gender-race pay gap.“

The thing is, I am not in search of a man. I am in search of peace, comfort - rapture. I have always been a go with the flow girl and I move where I am motivated. I have never had an aching desire to find a husband - or even a boyfriend. More than that, I am fun so when I am with someone they should be at lease as fun as I am. If I am not laughing and having a good time in the relationship what am I doing in the relationship?

Love can take many forms, one of which is platonic love like the deeply rooted love and connection we have with our bffs! Research shows 81% of women over 18 consider friendships as important to them as romantic relationships.

Platonic love gets much less attention when it comes to discussing the most important connections of our lives, but these platonic relationships are arguably some of the most meaningful. Platonic love is a type of love that is distinctly nonsexual and nonromantic while still being deep, close, and meaningful. Beyond a simple friendship, platonic love describes a bond that's defined by heartfelt connection, intimacy, and care.

In the US, over 70% of divorces are initiated by women, in addition, over 50% of divorced wives never want to remarry. Divorce is a life-altering experience that can evoke a myriad of emotions, with men and women navigating the aftermath with separate yet distinctive behaviors.

As the cultural perceptions about divorce continue to evolve, women are more inclined to embrace newfound freedom, openly express themselves, and pursue personal happiness.

Baby Boomers and the early Gen-x’ers are the first generation to live so long in such good health and to divorce in such great numbers in midlife resulting in millions of women enjoying the best sex of their lives in their 60's.

20% of women over 60 said orgasms that are more satisfying than ever before, 57% said they have an orgasm with their partners always or almost always, while nearly 40% of women over 60 are in the mood as often as they were 10 years prior.

Approximately 20% of engagements were called off before the wedding. We live in a culture that encourages us to find a partner and live happily ever after - even at the sacrifice of our intuition and happiness. If you feel you need to stop, pause, slow down or even end your relationship there is likely good cause. Make the decision about what is best for you and your future. It might be the hardest and bravest decision you ever make and you will be, OK! !

Wether you are learning to or loving your single status, there is a chance you will be invited to a soiree that you’ll have to attend solo. Check out he SP1NSTER’s™ Guide to navigating an invite only event without a plus one.

Today is Valentine’s Day! Happy Valentine’s day to you. For some reason, V-Day causes some single people stress and anxiety. It shines a light on the romantic relationships in our lives — or the lack of — and that can stir up an array of emotions. Whether you are coupled up or celebrating with friends, there is one relationship that everyone has, and many argue is the most important: the relationship with yourself.  While Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, and why not grant yourself the same kindness, generosity and display of admiration that you would to a lover or friend?

The video game and esports industries are seeing an unprecedented surge in revenue thanks to women gamers, the majority who are single. 33% of female gamers were aged 25-34 and 32% have the preference of strictly playing on their own.

Do you feel like you’re emotionally defective because you don't have a burning desire to be married? Fear not, for you're not alone. The trend of never-been-married mid-aged Americans has been decades in the making. For the first decade of the 20th century, only around 16% of 40-year-olds had never married. Today, 25% of 40 year olds in the US have never been married.

Unfortunately, we have all experienced a hater in the workplace. Studies show single women often face friction with their married co-workers due to the perception of their free time outside of work.

Being single does’t mean everyone at work is jealous of your free time - there are plenty of reasons we may experience the wrath of a colleague’s misplaced hostility. I found people who behave like tyrants at work are often miserable somewhere else in their lives. I learned that there were better ways to avoid the proverbial airstrikes and landmines in environment of workplace warfare. I call it “warfare” because we are literally in a fight for our survival.

The home decor industry in the US is experiencing significant growth, with single women emerging as the largest group of homeowners. This trend presents a massive opportunity for the decor industry to cater to the unique preferences and needs of this demographic. The market size in 2020 reached $737.20 billion, and a steady growth rate is forecasted, with an expected market value of $1 trillion by 2025.

40% of divorce filings occur in the weeks following Valentine's Day. February's surge in divorces is not solely attributable to Valentine's Day. Financial stressors, highlighted by the peak in January bankruptcy filings, often strain marriages. The cold weather during February can exacerbate existing relationship problems, forcing couples indoors and intensifying conflicts. Relationship experts suggest Valentine's Day itself acts as a catalyst for couples already contemplating divorce to make a decision.

The thirst is real! In 2023, around 77% of texters have sent , whilst 88% have received a risky text.

Sending risky/thirsty texts and nudes is a game that comes with both wins and losses, babes. You may get the immediate response you desire but will that gratification last? Ask yourself and know that the answer might be a big fat “NO!” Understanding the science behind the brain's reactions adds a layer of intrigue to the digital dance of thirst vs. romance. Always remember that once it’s out there, it’s out there forever!

One of life’s dirty little secrets is that some times a rough time can last for a long time. When life starts to resemble a house of cards on the verge of collapse, it's time to take a step back and reassess the situation. Here's a guide to cope with the whirlwind when everything seems to be going wrong. Might I add, sometimes everything is actually going wrong and I am here to validate you! I see you!

“I can buy myself flowers!” The US floral gifting market was valued at $12.25 billion in 2022. 63% of women buy flowers for themselves. 86% of these floral purchase are for non-calendar occasions. 79% of total floral purchases are made by women. It looks like there is an opportunity for growth in the flower industry and it starts with single ladies!

51% of single women are reported to buy their own jewelry, aligning with the trend of self-celebration. The rise of single women’s female purchasing power, especially among the 35-55 H.E.N.R.Y. ( high earning not rich yet) spinster has established herself as the most prominent demographic in the jewelry market.

With so many medical and cultural advancements why is having children the societal standard and acceptable substitute for longterm healthcare? When asked the question, “why do you want to have children?” more than 50% of people answered, “ So I’ll have someone to take care of me when I get old!”

Red lips are universally appealing, possibly due to a perceived association with sexual arousal. Highly attractive women were perceived as even more attractive in red. But WGAF? Women wear read because they love it and history tells us such. Red lips are the SP1NSTER’s signature lip color!

I recently came across a shocking twitter thread about the rise of the female mortician and why she matters.

I’ll start off by saying this it’s exactly why you think … 92% of necrophiliacs are men while 94% of necrophilia victims are women. Apparently, there has not been a sufficient number of necrophiliacs to establish any effective treatments although necrophilia has been documented since before the 13th century.

A new trend has taken root and flourished in the homes of single, childless, and petless spinsters — plant parenthood is the newest and long lasting home decor and self care trend. If you've found yourself acquiring more houseplants over the past year, you're not alone. A recent study reveals that more than 70% of single women have embraced plant parenthood.